Today is my fourth blog! yayay. Haha. Time to get for REAL.
I would have wrote this sooner, but I've pretty much been gone all day.. and to be honest, I almost forgot to write this blog. I fell asleep and then Courtney called me-- so, thank you, Courtney for waking me up and reminding me to write this blog!
Alright, now. I really am gonna get serious right now. Honestly, all day I've been struggling with what to write about today.. But I know what I'm gonna write about..
Now, this is a little off topic.. but some events that have occurred today has given me the idea to write about this..
My topic is.. Boys. You're probably like "psh, of course Sarah is talking about boys.."
But the truth is, I wanna tell you my point of views on the whole "boys" situation. So.. here it goes.
(Just let me tell you that I am in NO way forcing my views upon anybody. I just know that people have different views and I just wanna share mine.. for the heck of it, of course, and also so that people will know where I stand with it.)
Personally, I'm not fond of the whole "dating" while in high school thing... I mean, once you're a senior, I think its a little more acceptable to "date," simply because dating is for find who you are going to be married to for the rest of your life. When you are younger, you don't always know what's best for your life.. I think that it is perfectly acceptable to be friends with a guy... And most times, further relationships sprout out of having a strong friendship with a guy.
A lot of times, relationships in high school lead to heartbreak.. Personally, I don't understand why people would want to set themselves up for heartbreak.. Because that's what all these five minute relationships lead to...
And really, most high school relationships only last like five seconds until one person decides they want to like someone else.. Really, having a five minute relationship can ruin your whole friendship with a person. Why would someone want to do that? If you have such an amazing friendship with someone, why would anybody want to ruin that?
I will admit, I've had a boyfriend, but I've come to the realization that I don't want to have a boyfriend right now and I don't need one. My opinions and thoughts may change on this subject, but for now--they are staying the same.
Oh! I just thought of something else to add.. Most times, when a girl does date mutliple guys, it may mean that they have a low self-esteem and they need to find their worth in guys and they need to constantly have someone to love them. Sadly, this is the way most girls are.. they constantly want someone to be there for them and to constantly love them.. but one thing some girls need to realize is that you can't love someone else and someone else can't love you until you have a relationship with God.. God is love and you will never be able to know what love is until you experience God.
Now, I am off for the night and I'm done blabbing about my opinions on things.
Night!
~Sarah Hope
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